I’m sure plenty of you are interested in knowing what it is like to be one of London’s Top dominatrices in one of the world’s most kink obsessed cities.

Not everyone is blessed with knowing a London Dominatrix personally let alone having met one. And for those of you who have done neither the above, I dedicate this blog to you which entails a synopsis of what my day-to-day activities are like as a Dominatrix.

A little bit about me and how I run my day to day business…

Before you get any ideas on what my day entails, I would check yourself first. Yes, I am a sex worker, and yes sex workers do normal day to do things just the same as any of you who are reading this from a vanilla ‘normal’ life perspective. I love my job. Full stop. And yes, some weeks can be a total clusterfuck of sessions, camming, filming, and photoshoots, and other weeks can just be as boring and dull as spending your summer vacation at your nans.

First of all, I am extremely regimented and this is only because if my day is not structured, I will lose sight of my daily and weekly goals. Also, I grew up in a very chaotic environment where there was no structure or planning and very little push and go with regards to achieving goals and hitting targets. Hence my over compulsiveness to do the exact opposite. At the end of the day, Mistress Terra is a business, like any other business she has an image to upkeep, a brand name, and financial targets to hit, and might I mention a shit load of administration to keep up with.

As soon as I wake up I reach for my phone (my spiritualist told me I should not be doing this first thing in the morning but I can’t help it) to check my emails to see what new booking requests have hit my inbox. I like to plan my day based on session requests and I often get same day requests (which I am catering too currently as let’s face it, we all live last minute lives, especially in London). I am a Dominatrix, I can handle this shit, even last-minute bookings!

So, booking requests checked, Instagram and twitter checked, and now its time for my coffee. Yes, ladies and gentlemen, this is a known fact, I cannot start my day without a huge cup of coffee. I don’t care if its instant coffee or from a packet as long as its coffee. I need it and I need it yesterday! So, whilst sipping on my coffee I will be answering your booking requests and scheduling sessions into whatever dungeon is available. I work from several, the Baker Street dungeon, my usual, or the Blue door in Angel. Both are pretty spectacular and caters to all your kinky fantasies.

So before I head off to the dungeon to the session I ensure that I have packed my session outfits which could be anything from a latex midi to a strappy leather one-piece, and either looks spectacular on me. Just click on my Instagram, Twitter or Only Fans on my webpage to view more behind the scene image and videos of what my real-time sessions look like. My Only Fans is what dreams are made up of. I always get asked what I prefer to session in, latex or leather mistress? Well, it’s got to be leather, it a lot more functional during sessions and a whole lot easier to move around in. When I session in latex it tends to be very restrictive, takes ages to put on, and I sweat like a pig, but I look sensational! I tend to wear more latex for shoots or if it’s a specific outfit request from a client.

I always do my makeup at home and as soon as I get to the dungeon I do a quick retouch and of course, apply my red lipstick that I adore. There are many pros and cons to working in a rented dungeon the pros being there is equipment there already, lots of bondage, lots of kinky furniture and someone is there to clean up after you. The major cons of working in a dungeon is, well, first of all, it doesn’t belong to you and you have to share this space with other people and hence you may not be able to schedule your client in that dungeon on that particular day hence you may have to seek other arrangements. Travelling to and from different dungeons can also be a huge ballache.

After my sessions are done I get back to completing my daily tasks and this could be anything from cleaning my home, doing a food shop, going to the gym and planning upcoming filming and shoots. To be a successful London Dominatrix in a competitive city like London you really have to push yourself business wise to set your brand apart from all the other hundreds of other dominatrices that saturate the London market. The competition is fierce; therefore, you need to deliver an exceptional service. They say that Berlin is the fetish capital of the world, but I beg to differ. London by far has the highest standards and expectations in terms of kink and BDSM services. Calling yourself a dominatrix is easy, but actually becoming a good one and a popular one that lasts and makes a name for herself in such a competitive market is the real challenge. Every day I ask myself, how can I make myself a better mistress, how can I be a dominatrix that blows people’s mind!

Every day I like to spend a least 3 hours working on my business. This can be anything from blogging, arranging photo shoots, social media updates, to checking in with my marketing and SEO guys. I don’t care what people say, being a Dominatrix is NOT easy, to be the best and at the very top of the game comes with a lot of hard work and self-discipline.